A wedding etiquette site helpfully advises,
“Although it’s your
daughter’s special day, as mother of the bride you’ll also get lots of
attention. Choosing an wedding outfit is a complex process – do you dress to
stand out or to blend in? Which hat should you wear? What length should the
dress be? So many questions, so here's a few answers for all your mothers of
the bride:”
I am always
rather hopeful that I will lose some weight, and one would have thought that
with the wedding looming that would have motivated me. But I am what I am, I love
food , and I do believe that we are not just our physical bodies, we are our
soul and all that! So I have had to face up to the fact that I do need to sort
out a MOTB outfit.
Copying my
soon to be son in law – I multi task sometimes while sport is on the TV on an
evening, and have looked at many MOTB outfits. It became very clear that I know
what I don’t like better than what I do like! The one thing I do know is that I
would like to wear the biggest, boldest hat I can, to almost fill the aisle in Hexham
Abbey as walk Lucy down!!
I actually hate shopping, and the thought of
dragging round shops looking for a very special outfit really doesn’t inspire
me!
So it was
with great delight that I happened on a very interesting conversation recently with
Debra at Hands On about a local dressmaker Auriole B. Auriole created Debra a
stunning outfit for a society wedding at Hexham “Cathedral” which a certain
Pippa Middleton attended.
So a week or
so ago, on a glorious sunny day, now that I am back at the wheel (
carefully!) “we” have our initial
meeting. My Mum and Lucy came too – as “we” do...
We talked
through styles, colours, fabric etc.
We left an
hour later happy in a choice of a dress and jacket which Auriole will make a soft
cotton mock up to see the style suits me. We left Auriole to work out how many
whale bones she needs to order in – for the corsetry!! My friend Brenda has kindly offered to come with me next time as she operates a style company called Prasanna, her motto being "Dressing the inner woman".
I promise
that as the project progresses; there will be further blog posts.
Pure comfort inside & out ~ it will be a lovely but long day - easy on the corset's I'd say - as well as the feet, I know you have your shoes, but second pair for pure comfort - slippers?
ReplyDeleteHat - don't hide from us Hilary! We want to see you too.....